True Friend – Ruth Jensen Tuttle

December 16, 2009 · Print This Article

Today, I say good-bye to a true friend.  Ruth Jensen Tuttle passed away last week and her services are today.  She was 89 years old and was one of the kindest women I know.


Even though there was a number of years difference in our age, she was no less a true friend and a heart felt companion.  We shared the same birth date and would always make contact on that day.

She was a gardener.  Her yard was filled with many unusual flowers.  Ruth seemed to have an extra passion for roses.  She had so many beautiful varieties.

She shared her garden with us every Sunday.   Without fail, next to the pulpit sat an arrangement of exquisite beauty.  Even during the winter months, there was an arrangement of some type provided.

Last week, my sister Nicole called from and was planning to attend a birthday party of a friend who was turning 90.  She said her friend was a warm, delightful woman who made her laugh.  Nicole’s last comment was, “She is one of my best friends.”

Age has no barrier when it comes to friends and companionship.  The elderly, because of their experience, can can offer wisdom and compassion.  They’ve been down a road or two.  It’s good to have a “boomer” as a friend.

I’m going to miss Ruth.

Till later,

Kathy Griffiths
Insightful Nana

P.S.  I’m also friends with Ruth’s daughter, Karen and Becky, a daughter in-law.  They share Ruth’s sweet giving spirit and kindness.  They both fit in the  “true friend” category.


4 Responses to “True Friend – Ruth Jensen Tuttle”

  1. Sheila AtwoodNo Gravatar on December 16th, 2009 11:03 am

    Sorry for your loss, and glad you had such a wonderful friend.


  2. GeoffNo Gravatar on December 16th, 2009 11:08 am


    I am truly sorry for your loss, but glad you had such a friend who you could celebrate in such a way. When my Mother died, she had many friends who were much younger than her. They really liked her compassion, humor and odd take on life. Their sorrow was almost as great as mine and it gave me comfort that she had touched so many people.

    Your friend seems to have touched at least as many, and I’m sure that gives comfort to her daughter and daughter-in-law.


  3. Kristen CrespoNo Gravatar on July 28th, 2011 8:31 am

    I was just searching my grandmother’s name online and this is the 2nd thing that popped up. Thank you for saying such nice things about her all of which is very true. I miss and love her very much. Thank you for being a great friend to her.

  4. KathrynNo Gravatar on August 18th, 2011 1:33 pm

    You are very welcome. Your grandmother was a saint!

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